BOOK REVIEW- "ANGER AND FRIENDSHIP" Aiswarya Anilkumar(5036)

ANGER AND                      FRIENDSHIP
                    This isa short message about how anger can defeat friendship.No one loves the man whom he fears.HENCE WE CAN SY THAT FRIENDSHIP CAN ONLY THRIVE IN THE SOIL THAT IS TOTALLY FREE FROM ANGER.So friendship and anger is just like crop and weeds.For the crops to yield the weeds should be separated and burnt.Friendship cannot survive where there is anger.We all have a desire to make good friendship bt to bring that into reality anger is ahindrance.If a person doesn't have the capability to control his anger then he cannot make lasting friendship.Hence the great challenge in front of us is to streangthen our fiendship by controling all our temper,conflicts and misunderstanding.Love,   trust,kindness,mercy,compassion,forgiveness and understanding are ery much important for a stable friendship.IF ALL THOSE QUALITIES ARE PRESENT IN US WE CAN VERY CONFIDENTLY SAY THAT WE HAVE ADEQUATELY OCCUPPIED OURSELVES WITH PROPER CONFLICT MANAGEMENT SKILL.THE GREATEST PART IS THAT IF WE MAKE A FRIEND WHO HAVE VIOLENT TEMPER WE MIGHT LEARN THER HABIT AND NOT BE ABE TO CHANGE.Hence while choosing friends our first concern should be to make sure that they are not too hot-tempered.We should bear in mind the often repeated saying,"TELL ME YOUR FRIENDS.I WILL TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE."
                 So don't mix up anger with friendship.A good friend is a connection to the life in the past,a road towars the future,and a key to sanity in a totally insane world.Do try to control your temper to make good friends.ANGER DOESN'T SOLVE ANYTHING,IT BUILDS NOTHING,BUT IT CAN DESTROY EVERYTHING.So its better to cry when you are angry,because anger hurts others while tears will flow silently to the soul and cleans the heart.